How to Change Your Name After Marriage

Wondering how to change your name after getting married? You're in the right place. This complete guide covers every step for changing your name after marriage in Australia. From choosing your new name and understanding what's actually legal, to getting the right documents and creating a checklist of all 55+ organisations you'll need to notify of your new name.

The good news: if you're taking your spouse's surname, you do not need a formal legal name change application. Your registered marriage certificate is all you need. Read on to find out exactly how it works.

✔ The short answer: How to change your name in 3 steps

  • Decide what your new name will be.
  • Order your official marriage certificate OR go through an official change of name process by submitting an application to change your name. Which process you take will depend on what you're changing your name to. Read on for help deciding!
  • Notify organisations one by one starting with your driver's licence, then Medicare, then banks.

Simple in theory, but there's a lot of detail to get right ... read on!

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Step 1

Step 1 to Changing Your Name: Choose Your New Name

Before you can change your name anywhere, you need to know what you're changing it to. You have more options than most people realise and your choice determines what process you'll need to follow:

Take your spouse's surname

Still the most common choice. One partner (or both) adopts the other's surname. It's the simplest option and requires only your registered marriage certificate as proof.

Either spouse can make this change, it's not limited to brides. Once upon a time only brides could change their name this way and the grooms had to go through an official name change. This is no longer the case.

For example. Lily Black marries Tom White.
Lily becomes Lily White OR Tom Becomes Tom Black.

Hyphenate your surnames

Combine both surnames with a hyphen, e.g. Smith-Jones. Around 5% of Australian couples go this route. Both partners can hyphenate, and the surnames can appear in either order. Your marriage certificate is sufficient proof.

For example. Lily Black marries Tom White.
Lily changes her name to Lily Black-White, or Lily White-Black. Tom can also change his name to the same. (Or, of course Tom can be the only one to hyphante, they both don't have to).

Double barrel (no hyphen)

Similar to hyphenating, but written as two words with a space: White Black. Also covered by your marriage certificate. Note: some state roads authorities have occasionally pushed back on accepting a marriage certificate for double barrelled names. Frustratingly, it can vary by centre and customer service officer you talk to. If you encounter this, send an email inquiry before attending in person so you have a written response to reference.

Keep your maiden name as a middle name

A growing trend: move your maiden name to the middle name position and take your spouse's name as your new surname. So Lily Anne Black becomes Lily Black White. (This isn't a great example, but you get the point!)
This is a lovely way to retain identity.

Create an entirely new name

You can choose a brand new surname that neither of you currently holds. Both partners can adopt it, or just one. However, this requires a formal BDM change-of-name application, not just a marriage certificate. The cheapest approach if you both want a new name: one partner formally changes their name with BDM before the wedding, then the other uses the marriage certificate to take on that name after. It means only one name change application form and fee.

Not sure which option is right for you? Read our detailed guide to name change options after marriage for a full breakdown.

Marriage name change options — overview

Using your spouse's name socially only?

If you only want to use your new name among family and friends, not on official documents, you don't need to do anything formal. This is called name by association and is perfectly legal. If that's you, you're done! The remaining steps are only needed if you want to update your ID and official records.






Step 2

Step 2 to Changing Your Name: Get Your Marriage / Name Change Certificate

To change your name on official documents and with organisations, you need evidence of your name change. For most people taking a spouse's surname, that evidence is your registered marriage certificate issued by the Registry of Births, Deaths and Marriages (BDM).

Why you need the registered certificate, not the commemorative one

Your marriage celebrant hands you a beautiful certificate on the day. Keep it, but don't try to use it for a name change. It's a commemorative keepsake only and is not accepted as official proof by government agencies, banks, or most other organisations (it will be accepted by some, but this is becoming increasingly rare).

Commemorative marriage certificate (NOT accepted for name change)

Your official, legally recognised certificate is issued by your state or territory's BDM office after your celebrant has registered the marriage.

BDM does not automatically send you this certificate — you need to order it separately. You can do this online, by post, or in person. Ordering online or by post will take time, usually around 10 days to process, if you go in person to the BDM you can get it on the spot.

Official registered marriage certificate (accepted for name change)

How long does it take? Your celebrant must register the marriage within 14 days of the ceremony. BDM processing then takes around 4 weeks, though it can vary by state and during busy periods. Order it as soon as you can, you can't start changing anything until it arrives. (Some celebrants will order it for you, check in advance).

Honeymoon travel coming up? If you're travelling within 2–3 months of your wedding, do not change your name before you travel. Keep all flights, visas and accommodation booked in your original name and wait until you return. Airlines often charge hundreds of dollars for a name change on tickets, and proving a new married name without updated photo ID can cause serious delays at the border.

Order your certificate from your state BDM

Contact the BDM in the state or territory where your marriage was registered (not the state where you live):

Changing to a name other than your spouse's? You can't use a marriage certificate as evidence for a completely new surname. You'll need to go through a formal change of name application with your state BDM instead, a different process that results in a Change of Name Certificate.






Step 3

Step 3 to Changing Your Name: Update Your ID and Notify Organisations

This is the time-consuming part. The average Australian bride changes her name with around 55 organisations — not counting social media. Plan to spend around 10-12 hours across several days or weeks, as every organisation has its own process.

The recommended order

Follow this sequence to make the process as smooth as possible. Each step makes the next one easier, because you build up a set of ID in your new name that other organisations will accept:

  1. Driver's licence — your most important piece of photo ID
  2. Medicare card — quick to update and widely accepted
  3. Passport — requires your updated driver's licence as supporting ID
  4. Banks and financial institutions
  5. ATO, Centrelink, AEC and other government agencies
  6. Superannuation, insurance, employer
  7. Everything else — subscriptions, memberships, utilities, social media

Use our checklist You can also use our free name change checklist to get you started.

How to change your name with key organisations

DRIVER'S LICENCE

Visit your state's roads authority in person (e.g. Service NSW, VicRoads, TMR Queensland). Bring your registered marriage certificate and your current licence. A new licence is usually mailed within 1–2 weeks and is often free of charge when you hand in your old card.

MEDICARE

The fastest method: call Medicare on 132 011 during business hours. Have your marriage certificate registration number handy and your name will be updated on the spot. A new card arrives in the post in around 3 weeks. You can also update via myGov online or visit a Services Australia centre in person. Note: your core Medicare card number does not change, but the last number on the card may change. It's recommended that you and your partner go on the same Medicare card for a variety of reasons. To do this you need to sumbit the official form. In this case, your Medicare cared number will change.

PASSPORT

The process will depend on the validity period remaining on your current passport, and the timeframe you apply within. Confused? Get your updated driver's licence first, as it is usually required as supporting ID. Allow up to 6 weeks for standard processing, or pay for priority if you need it sooner. Visit passports.gov.au for current requirements. Our name change kit will explain your options, provide you with forms and application links, and help you with your passport name change.

AUSTRALIAN TAXATION OFFICE (ATO)

The easiest way is via your myGov account: go to My Profile → Personal Details and update your name. You'll need your BDM marriage certificate registration number. You can also call the ATO on 13 28 61. If you have an ABN, update your name separately through the Australian Business Register.

AUSTRALIAN ELECTORAL COMMISSION (AEC)

Update online at aec.gov.au and upload a scanned copy of your marriage certificate. The update usually applies within a few days and confirmation is sent by post or email. Keeping this current avoids issues with jury duty correspondence or election notices arriving in the wrong name.

If it's close to election time, check if the change will be made in time or if you need to vote in your maiden name.

BANKS AND FINANCIAL INSTITUTIONS

Most banks accept your registered marriage certificate in person at a branch. Some also allow updates online or by post. Start with your main bank, then work through credit cards, home loans, and other accounts. Once your driver's licence and Medicare card reflect your new name, these make the process much faster.

Full checklist of places to update

Other common organisations to notify include:

  • Superannuation funds
  • Private health, life, car and home insurance
  • Employer / payroll / HR
  • Centrelink / Services Australia
  • Your will — important: marriage automatically revokes most previously written wills in Australia
  • Utilities (electricity, gas, internet)
  • Loyalty programmes and memberships
  • Professional licences and registrations
  • Subscriptions and online accounts
  • Social media (Facebook, Instagram, LinkedIn etc.)
  • You can get a longer checklist on our name change checklist page or get the full checklist in the name change kit.

Keep every name consistent. Having mismatched names across different documents, for example, your Medicare card in your married name but your driver's licence still in your birth name, can cause real problems with identity checks for loan applications, international travel, and government services.



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Name Change Kit — everything you need to change your name after marriage






Married Overseas? Different Rules Apply

If you were married outside Australia, you cannot automatically use your foreign marriage certificate to update your name on Australian ID documents. Most Australian government agencies require a certificate issued by an Australian BDM, which means you will need to lodge a formal change-of-name application with your state BDM..

If you are not an Australian citizen, the name change process will be different again, and will vary by state.






Top Tips for Changing Your Name After Marriage

A few things that will make the whole process much less stressful:

  • 1
    ✍️ Practise your new signature — a lot.

    You'll be signing your new name hundreds of times in the coming weeks. Practise before you start so it looks natural from day one.

  • 2
    📋 Keep copies of everything.

    Photograph or photocopy your driver's licence, passport and other ID before you hand them in. Many offices require your originals and won't return them until your new ID is issued.

  • 3
    ✅ Track your progress.

    Keep a running record of where you've changed your name and what's still outstanding. A simple spreadsheet or the checklist in our Name Change Kit works perfectly.

  • 4
    ⚡ Do it as quickly as possible.

    The sooner you work through the list, the less confusing it is. Having two different names active across different accounts and losing track of which is which, is a real headache. Technically, there is no deadline to change your name after marriage. You can update your surname the day your BDM certificate arrives or ten years later, the right doesn't expire. And you can revert to your birth surname at any time, regardless of whether you're still married. (See the note in the FAQ section below). But, once you get started changing your name, it is best to get it done as quickly as possible, and some government organisations require you to change your name with 14 days (for example) of deciding to be known by another name.






Frequently Asked Questions

Do I need to legally change my name after marriage in Australia?

For most people, no formal legal application is required. If you were married in Australia and want to take your spouse's surname (or create a hyphenated version of both surnames), you can simply present your official registered marriage certificate to each organisation. This is a name change by usage, not a formal legal name change application.

A formal BDM application is only needed if you want to change to an entirely new surname that isn't your spouse's, or if you want to change your first or middle names.

How do I legally change my name after marriage in Australia?

Order a registered marriage certificate from your state or territory's Registry of Births, Deaths and Marriages. Once you have it, present it to each organisation and ask them to update your records. If you're taking your spouse's surname, no court order or Deed Poll is required, your marriage certificate is all the evidence you need.

How long does it take to get my marriage certificate from BDM?

Your marriage celebrant must register the marriage within 14 days of the ceremony. After that, BDM processes the registration and issues certificates. This typically takes around 4 weeks, though it can be longer during busy periods (e.g. summer wedding season). BDM does not automatically send you a certificate; you need to order it and pay a small fee.

What is the difference between a registered certificate and a commemorative certificate?

The commemorative certificate is the decorative one your marriage celebrant gives you on your wedding day. It's a lovely keepsake but is not accepted as legal proof of name change by government agencies, banks, or most other organisations.

The registered certificate is the official document issued by your state or territory's Registry of Births, Deaths and Marriages. This is what you need, and you must order it separately.

Can I change my first name or middle name using a marriage certificate?

No. A marriage certificate only allows you to change your surname. If you want to change your given (first) name or middle name, you need to lodge a formal change-of-name application with your state's Registry of Births, Deaths and Marriages.

How long do I have to change my name after getting married?

There is no time limit. You can change your surname to your married name the day your BDM certificate arrives, or years after the wedding, the right doesn't expire. You can also revert to your birth surname at any time, regardless of your marital status, without needing to go through a formal process.

Keep in mind that some government departments have preferred time frames so once you have decided to officially use a new name it’s best to change your name on your identity documents as soon as possible to avoid problems later on.

What is the first thing I should change my name on?

Start with your driver's licence, then your Medicare card. These are the two most widely accepted forms of ID in Australia. Having both updated first means the rest of the process — banks, passport, ATO — is much smoother because you have current photo ID in your new name to show them.

How do I change my name on Medicare?

The fastest way is to call Medicare on 132 011. Have your BDM marriage certificate registration number ready, your name is updated on the spot. A new card arrives in the post within about 3 weeks. You can also update via myGov online or visit a Services Australia centre in person.

Can I still travel on my passport in my old name after getting married?

Yes, a valid Australian passport remains valid in your previous name even after marriage. If you have a honeymoon or overseas trip coming up soon after the wedding, we recommend keeping all travel bookings (flights, accommodation, visas) in your original name and waiting until you return before updating your passport. Airlines can charge hundreds of dollars for a name change on tickets.

How many organisations do I need to notify?

Most Australians change their name with around 55 organisations, not counting social media. The exact number depends on your personal circumstances — number of bank accounts, professional licences, subscriptions, and so on. Our Name Change Kit includes a complete checklist.

Can I change my name to something completely different after marriage?

Yes, but you can't use your marriage certificate for this. You'll need to lodge a formal change-of-name application with your state BDM, which issues an official Change of Name Certificate. If both partners want a brand-new shared surname, the easiest approach is for one partner to change their name formally with BDM before the wedding, then the other uses the marriage certificate to take on that name.

Does getting married cancel my existing will?

In most Australian states and territories, yes marriage automatically revokes any will made before the marriage, unless it was made specifically in contemplation of that marriage. It's important to make a new will soon after your wedding. Our Will Kit makes this quick and straightforward.

I was married overseas can I still change my name in Australia?

Yes, but the process is different. Foreign marriage certificates are generally not accepted by Australian government agencies for name change purposes. In most cases, you will need to lodge a formal change-of-name application with the BDM in the state or territory where you live. Contact your state BDM directly to confirm the exact requirements for your situation.

Written by Vanessa

Vanessa is the founder of After The Wedding and Australia's longest running name change kit, helping Australians navigate the name change process since 2006. She has been featured on ABC Radio, Easy Weddings, Polka Dot Bride and Ideal Bride, and has published over 83 updates to keep the kit current with every government change. Read more about Vanessa.






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